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Sunday, May 25, 2014

Looking back across the chasm

Nel.  (Copywright with my Mum).

If you came expecting a rant about UKIP, prepared to be disappointed, although I did find it amusing that their spokesman said they did not gain in London because people there are 'educated, cultured, and young'.  Speaks volumes I suppose.

I have other places I update more regularly so this place is for the Soul and most recently the same old comments about me have surfaced:

  1. I think too much/overthink (not necessarily a bad thing, except where it prevents action - see 2)
  2. Lack of confidence (the ongoing problem - people tell me to trust my instincts more, to speak up when I think of something because of 1 but the risk for me often seems too great.  I have said the wrong thing and upset people, made myself seem moronic or worse.  There is also the problem of 3)
  3. Something I didn't see when I was in the Man-cave last year was that, where it comes to women I now seem unable to trust my feelings.  I can trust my instincts about them but I am filled with crippling doubt about my own feelings and that is a serious problem when it comes to romance.  All my own fault of course, which perhaps leads us back to 1.
Doubt, they say can be a great teacher but it can also hold you back.

Ram.